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Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Please Do Not Disturb, I am Mind Mapping - Thank You!

Daily Lesson:
There is nothing that important to talk about all day long. Sit with the silence & learn your daily blessings!

Have you ever just sat and vowed to be silent? You  must try it! There is a lot that can go on in a silent moment. Wishful thinking, mindful decision making, intuitive insight along with little whispers of blessings in your minds voice. If this is sounding like mumbo jumbo so far, you have confirmed that you have not sat in true silence, some call it meditation - I call it being quiet for a long enough time frame to hear yourself clearly. What are you trying to get across?
Ever since Shiloh was little a nap is just as important to her as it is for me. I take this time roughly two hours a day to do my odd jobs around the house, emails, cook, plan for the week, start dinner etc. The coolest part of that time, is that it is all spent in silence. I usually do not answer the phone during this time and just spend it with myself in silence listening to any thought or direction my mind wants to take me in. I have also heard referred to as Mind Mapping. Following your mindful trail of discovery.
This is where new direction, fresh ideas, creativity, healing and insight comes from. During this 2 hour silence session is where I shape my next move in life. Then I spend all the other time in the day building on the message(s) I received.
Many of you know me as a bubbly energetic whirlwind but I have an extreme quiet side as well.
Quiet time or Silence is one thing, but how do you spend your quiet time? Are you mindfully available to receive messages from yourself or spiritual direction? You do not have to be enlightened to receive important-sometimes path altering messages. Are you a thought-blocker? They are usually only heard while in the presence of silence. Are you allowing those messages and thoughts to be heard?
I hope I haven't lost ya with today's post but, I am trying to get the importance of mindful silence.

Give it a try. Sit and try to unclutter your mind long enough to listen, really listen. It may help to close your eyes, but eventually you can cook a meal and clean up all while listening. It is amazing what pops up. Try at the same time to push the intercepting "junk" thoughts to the side until they subside. Let your day thus far seise just for a moment. Listen to how the rest of your day wants to continue.
The saying "Ignorance is Bliss" is another way of describing a non-meditative mind. What I mean by that is, if you don't listen to what your Mind is really saying, its as though it doesn't matter. Just like anything else you don't pay attention too - it stops trying to gain your interest. Engage your mind people - I am not talking about a crossword or a Suduko session.

What if you went your whole life listening only to the sub-surface of your thinking. The direct thoughts that tell you right or left, yes or no, unhappy or happy and so forth. What if you completely ignore the directional messages the mindful thoughts that shape who "you" are. For instance, maybe you are in a position to make a challenging decision in your life. Have you asked yourself what to do? If so, did you wait for the answer long enough to hear it? Or did you call every friend, family member and co-worker to yak about the pros & cons? All that did, was cloud your mind with their thoughts - making it that much harder to hear your own untainted rationale. Before all others, sit with yourself and get the answers. If you don't know, just be patient and try asking yourself in a different tone. Be ready to listen and open to the message, whether your going to like the answer is a whole 'nother blog.

The deep thinking is where its at people.
Give your mouth a rest and force your inner voice to be heard.
Check this Mind Map out as an example how to side track your everyday thoughts to focus on the real prize (http://www.mindmapinspiration.com/meditation-visualization/)

Quiet as a Cucumber,
Tasha

Monday, January 17, 2011

Peace Out USA --> Fiji Bound!

Daily Question:Would you accept $1,000,000 to leave the country and never set foot in it again?
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(If your just tuning in - this is question #9 of The Book of Questions
written by Gregory Stock, PH.D)

I skipped question 7 & 8,  just because I can. I vowed to go question to question but, some are just not worth elaborating on (sorry Gregory!) I haven't written in a while because I sort of lost some steam with this undertaking. It sort of takes the fun out of blogging if you vow to do it. I have decided to blog as I may and answer the questions as I feel inclined to in hopes of putting the thrill back in to my wee little blog. On to the answer...

YES, without a doubt! Not a question about it. My reasoning is that I could afford to take my family with me. That is all that matters in my world, my family and my close knit friends. I could afford to take them with me to Fiji, where else?  I know $1 million bucks isn't a whole lot and it goes fast but not as fast where the simple life is the only way of life. I would let my parents retire and I would work teaching English or working at the Resorts in neighboring areas. Jared would hypothetically work as a fisherman and would build water huts.
This would be our water front neighborhood - perfection!
I would miss the amenities of the U.S but would be glad to be free of the rat race we call life. Would love nothing more than to sell all my possessions and rebuild a new life in Fiji, Bora Bora or Tahiti.
What a peaceful place to raise children. In a natural most spectacular setting where kids are free of the electronically plugged in society. Active lifestyles filled with survival techniques and tradition.

I would trade in this over stuffed lake house for a grass hut and a working boat in the islands any day. Sign me up! I will at some point spend a portion of my life in a remote setting getting back to nature and the basics. When, not sure but know 100% it is in my future.

Peace Out U.S - Fiji Bound,
Tasha

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Baby Swap would Break my Heart.

Daily Question:
You discover your wonderful 1 year old child is, because of a mix up at the hospital, not yours. Would you want to exchange the child to try to correct the mistake?
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(If your just tuning in - this is question #6 of The Book of Questions
written by Gregory Stock, PH.D)
 
This question is by far the hardest question ytd. Just thinking about this hypothetical situation is making me nauseated. As a Mother of a 2 year old, this question is disturbing.
I will try to answer it the best I can but, I wouldn't wish this on anyone although I am sure it has happened more times than not.
 
I asked my husband this question and he was quick to answer Yes, correct the mistake and get our biological baby back and continue on with our life. I say, Yes also but with severe reservations. I have nurtured, loved and will always love the child that was "ours" for the first year of its life. I can't fathom packing his/hers favorite blanket and teddy bear and loading up as a family in the car to head back to the hospital to make the swap.  Biological or not, that is my child - to mix up children is unacceptable! I would be devastated but, would have a glimmer of hope knowing that our other child is in the wrong home and wanting to reunite with my other baby.
A loss of one - to gain what was meant to be. What if the family that was receiving back their biological child that I had raised thus far was not an ideal family? How could I knowingly place a child into a home that was unsafe, less loving or just not good enough?
I couldn't live with myself either way. The glass could be half full for a moment, and the other family would be ideal and just as loving yada yada yada - perfect or not, the separation of a family is never easy.
I would hope to stay in touch with that family and child and watch that baby grow. I would be blessed to have my biological child back home with us but, would always hold that child near to my heart. I would try to find the beauty in the mayhem and pray to get me through it.
 
Side note * I would sue the living shit out of the hospital and give the proceeds 50/50 to both children to pay for college. I would make the person who was responsible make a public apology and outline a  program for their department to ensure that this would never happen again. I would make it my personal mission to make the public aware of the risks and precautions that parents can take to protect this injustice from occurring.
 
Tasha
 
 

Saturday, January 1, 2011

1% versus 99%

Daily Question:
If a new medicine were developed that would cure arthritis but cause a fatal reaction in 1% of those who took it, would you want it to be released to the public?
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(If your just tuning in - this is question #5 of The Book of Questions
written by Gregory Stock, PH.D)

Well I think it is important to mention that arthritis is not a condition to be taken lightly. It may seem to some that arthritis can be uncomfortable and causes aches & pains but, not life threatening. It can be and has taken the life of my bestfriends mother, Teresa at a young age.

I would never wish this decision to be one I must choose but, for the sake of answering all questions - I say yes.
Yes, I would release it even if it meant taking the life of 1% of the patients. My reasoning is that 99% would be spared a lifetime of pain and debilitating ailments and potentially their lives. Under one condition would I release this medicine to the public, that all 100% of participants knew that 1% of the patients would not be on the surviving end of this deal. As harsh as that sounds, 1% would most likely lose the battle on their own and 99% would be spared.
I often wonder, if this question is just hypothetical or if the "cure" to arthritis and other life threatening diseases have in fact been found. I do believe the money is in the medicine and not in the cure. As sad as that is, I do believe there are cure alls to the cancers and other terminal diseases. What if we were given the cure. What would that do to natural selection and the population count. If in fact the cure(s) do exists, are there stipulations such as this proposed question: Cancer will be cured but, x% will not survive.
Would we want to play God and pick in choose which percentage survives or dies?

Tasha